• What does family mean to me? Well it entirely depends on the context of the word.

    When people ask about my family, I know they are talking about my parents and my sister. Sometimes that family can be wider to include my Grandmother, but by and large it is static.

    When I think of my family I think of the same.

    When I think of the family I want, that is when my view changes.

    The family I want looks something like this.

    Me
    My Partner
    Children

    Not so different to the one I grew up with, but with a few differences. My Partner is also male. And the family is not based on marriage, but on a Civil Partnership.

    This family is as loving as the one I grew up in. It is as nurturing and inspiring as the one I grew up in.

    Why can’t I have a family like that?”

    Stephen Spillane, Cork

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